Ten things to do to become successful with women

Here is a list of Ten things that will get you ahead of most guys:

1-      Get a Life

If you find yourself with not much to say about anything except for weather or work-related topics. It’s time to explore life and consider new hobbies, studies or travels.

2-      Ditch you friends

You do not always need your friends to go out to a bar. This is especially true if your buddies spend most of their free time watching TV or playing WoW. Chances are they still refer to having sex as “getting lucky”. Lose them on a Saturday night, hit the town alone and make some more friends along the way.

3-      Bring sand to the beach

Going out to a bar, club or any other venue in the company of women makes you feel and appear considerably more attractive.  Initiating a conversation with other women will be a lot easier.

4-      Improve your appearance

Start with simple things. You should know which colors suit you best and how to pick clothes that actually fit you. I still see too many guys wearing oversized shirts, dirty shoes or t-shirts tucked in their pants. Get advice and avoid the most common fashion blunders. Need I mention hygiene, a healthy diet and regular exercise?

5-      Open your eyes

Start paying attention and not just to cleavages but to the general atmosphere of a party, what people are wearing and how they dance. Pick up clues that might be great conversational elements later. Also, never miss a girl’s attempt at making eye-contact with you.

6-      Take Initiative

Why wait for invitations at parties and social gatherings when you can take the lead and give people a chance to enjoy a good time? Organize a night-out and mix old and new friends. This will be greatly appreciated.

7-      Talk to them

Just walk over to her and say “Hi!” if you can’t think of anything else, but do it. It’s the only way to get rid of that nagging voice telling you that you should have.

8-      Listen when they talk

And by listen I mean total listening i.e. not just WHAT she says but HOW she says it. So pay attention instead of looking for the next thing to say. It will make the interaction a more intense and more rewarding experience for both. And, yes that means remembering their name at the end of the conversation.

9-      Have Fun

It’s a journey, not a destination.  So, the more you enjoy being at the party and meeting people the more relaxed and confident you will be. In other words, enjoy the moment instead of obsessing about the outcome.

10-   Be Safe

There is still no cure against AIDS. The virus claims the life of 5500 people each day. Don’t take chances. Use condoms for each intercourse and get tested regularly. (Source: USAID, 2010)

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